We just returned from Michigan. Amazingly, Gramcracker pulled through and is doing much better. Praise the Lord! She had all of us so concerned. Even her doctor thought she may have been in her last days. Although Gram isn't thrilled about her new residence at a nursing home, it seems to be the best option for her. Her injuries require months of physical therapy; her leg is severely broken AND neither of her arms is fully functional at this point (she had a stroke in one & the other is dislocated at the shoulder). She needs around-the-clock care to help recover to the point that she can return home.
It was difficult to see my Gram suffer so much. She has always been a pillar of grace and strength to me...and now she cannot even care for her basic needs. This independent woman is now completely dependent upon perfect strangers for every aspect of her care. It is my prayer that she will overcome her disappointment about being in a nursing home, muster up a strong will to survive and rise to the challenge that lies ahead of her.
As for our time with family, I couldn't have asked for more. I had wonderful opportunities to get to know family members on a personal level. Because I always lived relatively far away from my family (seven aunts & uncles and many cousins, most of whom grew up in Michigan), I always felt like somewhat of an outsider. Throughout my childhood, I saw my relatives once a year during Christmas--a situation that didn't exactly foster close relationships.
Over the past few days, I learned more about my family than in all of my 34 years, combined. I had real, honest conversations with aunts and cousins...and I gained great insight into the hearts and minds of people I've always longed to know. I now feel like I have meaningful relationships rather than distant relatives. And I have a true sense of belonging within my extended family. What an unexpected blessing!
As usual, Liliana was a terrific traveler and Wade was helpful beyond words. They had lots of daddy-daughter time, while I spent quality time with Gram and family. I appreciated Wade's willingness to take care of things behind the scenes so that I could have the time to do what I felt I needed to do. He is so thoughtful and generous. Thanks, honey!
Now it's back to life in St. Louie. I have lots of catching up to do, but I wouldn't trade a moment of my time in Michigan for an easier road here.
Here's to staying up 'til the wee hours of the night, talking about real issues and creating real relationships! Blessings, Ramona
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