Monday, October 22, 2007

Adoption and the Bible

It is no secret that Wade and I are very excited about our call to adoption. What is not so well-known is how extensive and exhaustive the adoption process can be. This home study process has been an incredible opportunity to dig deep into our experiences and examine who we are, what we believe and how we arrived at this place in our lives.

The adoption process at Bethany is no easy task, and it is one that requires the applicants to really understand themselves and the true meaning of adoption. How perfect that we should be studying 1 John, which speaks about the greater definition of adoption--the means by which all believers enter into the family of God. What a beautiful parallel to the adoption of a child.

As we researched and prayerfully considered adoption, we encountered some questions & answers that were very helpful. Here they are:

Is adoption biblical?
Absolutely! The Bible is a story of our adoption by God. Adoption is the means by which all believers enter into the family of God. “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God. For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, “Abba, Father.” The Spirit Himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him, that we may also be glorified together. Romans 8:14-17

Is adoption a “second best” way to form a family?
Adoption is not “second best.” It is simply one way that God in His wisdom can choose for us to be parents. Whether one becomes a parent biologically or through adoption, the fact is that children are not a right—they are a gift from God. “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord. Psalm 127:3

Does the Bible refer to adoption in a positive way?
Yes! The Bible always presents adoption as a positive, gracious act that is part of God’s plan.Moses was adopted by Pharaoh’s daughter and his adoption was part of God’s overall plan for the deliverance of Israel from Egypt. (Exodus 2:1-10)

When Esther’s parents died, Mordecai, her cousin, took her as his own daughter and adopted her (Esther 2:15). This adoption also led to a wonderful deliverance of the people of God!

And in a way, wasn’t Jesus an adoptee? Joseph, who raised Jesus as his own, was not His biological father. Joseph gladly accepted Jesus, providing Him with all the love, encouragement, and guidance that a son needs from a father. Luke1-2

Are there other models of adoption in the Bible?
Yes. The Bible tells us that there is only one way for us to enter the Kingdom of God—we must become God’s adopted children through Jesus Christ. …“having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will, to the praise of the glory of His grace, by which He made us accepted in the Beloved.” Ephesians 1:5-6

“But when the fullness of the time had come, God sent forth His Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, that we might receive the adoption as sons.” Galatians 4:4-5

In adopting us through Christ, God shows the depth of His love. What a delightful model this presents to those who want to adopt a child as their son or daughter. God uses adoption to advance His Kingdom and to share the miracle of His unconditional love. The child adopted into a Christian family will have the security of knowing that God has been watching over and protecting him or her since before birth. “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you; Before you were born I sanctified you; I ordained you a prophet to the nations.” Jeremiah 1:5

(Adapted from Bethany Christian Services website article: "What does the Bible say about adoption.")

Have a wonderful week! ~Ramona

2 comments:

Niki said...

Sooo excited to watch you continue on this leg of your journey. Until someone has REALLY looked into the option of adoption, or knows someone going through the process, they really have no idea just how much is involved. It's quite a daunting process. I was just telling someone yesterday how I telling my husband 3 years ago, "as soon as we get moved into our house and get settled, we can make some calls, and see what we need to do to get our name on the list to adopt." HAHAHA! Oh so naive. After a lot of prayerful consideration, and continued research into various options, we still don't have our name "on the list" but we it looks like doors are continuing to open for is in the direction of a different type of adoption--embryo adoption. With that said, a traditional adoption isn't ruled out either.

Kate said...

Good summary on adoption. I might need to refer to it for future reference with other friends considering adoption.

Hugs to you.